Wednesday, October 24, 2018

Service to Others

Dum Vivimus Servimus
I am proud to say that I am a 1979 graduate of Presbyterian College. While at PC, I was fortunate to learn a great deal about serving others. The motto of PC is Dum Vivimus Servimus, or While We Live We Serve. Many will find that is simply a good way to ‘give back to their community’. However, for me and many of my classmates, we recognized this as part of God’s plan.  

My parents began the process of instilling in me this sense of service. Presbyterian College helped me grow with this commitment to serve. So, serving others is something that has been important to me. I want to love, to serve and to care for others that God puts in my path. In order to do that I have to have a servant leader’s heart. I need to know God and have a relationship with Him if I am to obey His Word and serve Him.

Sometimes it’s just hard to swallow this, but there is no job too small that God will not be glorified in you doing it. Even a new college graduate might become too prideful and think some jobs are beneath him or her. Can you think of someone who fits in this story? The story is told of a young man who had been hired by the personnel department of a large supermarket chain. The young man was excited for the opportunity as he reported to work at one of the stores. The manager greeted him with a warm handshake and a smile, handed him a broom and said, "Your first job will be to sweep out the store." Shocked, the boy replied, "But I'm a college graduate." The manager looked down and replied, "I'm sorry. I didn't know that. Here, give me the broom and I'll show you how.” There is no job too small that God will not be glorified in you doing it.

Here’s another example I found one day that I want to tell you about.
There was a businessman during the mid-1960’s who was very successful and was called upon by high profile leaders.  Apparently, he wrote in his autobiography about a certain call he received. The businessman had a very loyal assistant. It had been a very tiring few days. So, on this occasion, he asked his assistant to hold all his calls while he got a nap. 

The phone rang not long after. “Get me Ken Galbraith. This is Lyndon Johnson.” Can you imagine answering the phone and finding the President on the other end asking for your boss? “I’m sorry, Mr. President, he is sleeping. He said not to disturb him.” “Miss, wake him up. I want to talk to him.” “No sir Mr. President. I work for him, not you.” Galbraith recalled that he called the President back, and President Johnson could hardly contain his pleasure. He wanted that assistant to come work at the White House. The assistant was loyal to one person. She obeyed his wishes explicitly.

True Servant
Paul was the same way. He had a single focus to follow and obey His Master, Jesus Christ. You can read that he described himself as a slave of Christ Jesus in Romans 1:1. There were others who tried to command Paul, but he was focused on serving Christ. 

A true servant will follow his Master anywhere, obeys without reason or explanation. A lot of people say they know God, they love Him or read His word. Yet, there are not many who are true servants of Christ. Paul is a good example of a humble servant. He had quite a list of earthly qualifications. He writes “I am a pure-blooded citizen of Israel and a member of the tribe of Benjamin—a real Hebrew if there ever was one! I was a member of the Pharisees, who demand the strictest obedience to the Jewish law.” 

But Paul didn’t take pride in his achievements and his standing. Remember, his name at one time was “Saul”. Saul means ‘to be desired’. That’s kind of a prideful way to look at his name right? But he left that name and became ‘Paul’ which means ‘small or little’. His experiences showed him that the worldly status meant nothing compared to the opportunity to serve Almighty God. Remember, God doesn’t see you with titles, ranks and social status. 

Our Savior Demonstrates True Service
There is a familiar story in John about an act of service that our Lord Jesus Christ did that really blew away His disciples. Peter really objected when Jesus was ready to serve him. Do you remember what Jesus was doing?

Washing their feet! Gross! Remember that this was a task that a servant would always carry out, not a master or a head of household. But Jesus himself washed their feet. They wore sandals and constantly were walking on dusty roads, through unclean water, and around animals. Can you imagine how their feet smelled after a long day??? Jesus didn’t do this just to fire up His disciples so that they would be kind to each other. His goal was to "extend His mission on earth after He was gone." We know now that these men would be the leaders who would move into the world serving God, each other, and people who would hear the message of salvation.


Now for the call to action
Okay, let’s think about this. Jesus paid a very high price for our sins. We are to respond to His gift. Pastor Rick Warren says “God saved you so He can use you.” How are we to be used? 1 Peter 4:10 reads “God has given each of you a gift from His great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another.” We are to obey His Word and serve Him by serving others as Christ showed us. Anyone can think about, talk about and even have convictions about Jesus Christ. However, just as Pastor Rick Warren said “Faith is action. It is movement; it is activity. Faith is something you do.” 

Servant Leaders right here!
Serving Him comes in many different forms. I’d be interested in knowing how you are currently serving our Lord by serving others. Comment below here in my blog briefly how you serve Him! 

GO BLUE HOSE! Dum Vivimus Servimus - While We Live We Serve!




"His faithful love endures forever."



Until next time...


Chaplain Gray



Wednesday, October 10, 2018

Faith Community Can Make a Difference

There is no excuse for Domestic Violence

If you live in South Carolina, you need to know this: Reported by the "Post and Courier" SC is #6 in the rate of women killed by men. The Violence Policy Center showed SC improved only by 1 spot in its 2016 Rankings. In that reporting year of 2016, there were 48 women killed. At a recent Silent Witness Ceremony in Columbia, the Attorney General's Office reported that 28 women were killed in 2017.

The South Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assualt defines domestic violence as "the willful intimidation, physical assault, battery, sexual assault and/or other abusive behavior as part of a systematic pattern of power and control perpetrated by one intimate partner against another."

Consider this: 1 in 4 women have been in a domestic violence relationship at some point in their life. Women ages 16-24 experience the highest rate of domestic violence. 

Don't Think It Can't Happen to You or Someone You Love
Our communities need to realize that domestic violence occurs in all social groups, without regard to their ethnic, economic, religious, educational, professional or social background! It is often well hidden from outside observers because it often occurs within the privacy of someone's home.

A Call to Make Preparations
The faith community is an important part of making a difference in this tragic statistic. Understand that an increase in awareness of domestic abuse by the large numbers of people who are active in our area churches is an important step for victims. Further, by sharing the undeniable message that God never intends for any human being to be abused like this, and by linking victims to community resources, clergy can support and strengthen the victim's faith in a loving and just God.

Remember, domestic violence is a learned, purposeful behavior and is a manifestation of the abuser's need to achieve and maintain power and control over the victim.

Meg's House Executive Director Dr. Alice Hodges has developed a comprehensive training for our community. As a volunteer for Meg's House, I am making this workshop available to the faith community. This month is Domestic Violence Awareness Month so it's the perfect time for clergy and lay leaders to take this first step in responding to domestic violence. It's not a matter of "if" it is occurring with members of your congregation. Would you recognize the signs if you saw them? Are you comfortable responding to someone who discloses an abusive relationship? 

Can lay leaders and clergy of various churches come together to prepare for the day when a victim or perpetrator discloses the violent nature of a relationship to you?

I urge you to consider hosting this multi-session workshop at your church. Get members of your church leadership involved. Invite other churches to join you. Be prepared!



"His faithful love endures forever."



Until next time...


Chaplain Gray